Dear ladies,
I know you are in a relationship and totally in love with him that it 'feels' like you are married already.
Congratulations dear but...
...Keep your options open till he puts a ring on it.
Keeping your options open doesn't mean you should flirt and go to bed with every member of the opposite sex, it simply means staying committed to the one you are presently with but not discarding nor mistreating other prospects.
Do not turn yourself to a house wife before he puts a ring on it cause, trust me, no matter what you commit to a relationship, a man will still make his decisions without batting an eyelid and make his stance known without mincing words. Do the best you can for the relationship but don't be the clothing washing, sex providing, money supplying, food cooking, 'gbogbo e doing', kind of girlfriend because you want to impress him, cause once a man senses desperation, like any regular being, he starts to withdraw gradually.
Do not 'chase' friends and family away because you feel you have gotten to your final destination therefore, friends and family matter less. In fact once you see a man that wants to separate you from your loved ones, you need to give him a very reasonable distance. Such men will cause a rife between you and your loved ones, so that when he starts showing the true him, you will have no where to turn.
At the end of the day, feelings of being married doesn't translate to being married, neither does countless years of dating automatically means that he will marry you.
Have a wonderful evening and stay pragmatically in love!
Yours,
Abby MaryAnne
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